Life...

I dont know what it is, but when I read laceeblueeyes new blog entery titled "I want to die!!!!!" It really made me think. The things that happen in our lives, they mold us into who we are today, and who we will be in the future. We all endure things in life that we never want to go through, things go wrong and we say that we want to die. I know that I've said that a in a few points in my life... but if I had died when I wanted to or when I should have, I wouldnt have gotten to where I am today. I have so many amazing friends, my loving family, wonderful boyfriend... things are really going good. Being upset at things in life take us away from all the good things that are to happen. Every minute we spend upset and angry at things is time wasted. You could spend days crying about the big breakup you just went through, but really... you could spend that time being happy for the things that you've experianced, because you have gained knowlege through what you've experienced. I found it easier to just look to different things to divert my attention from when Chris broke up with me. What I found when I wasnt thinking about the breakup - happiness. I wouldnt trade anything that has happened to me in my life for anything, I wouldnt be the person I am today if I could. So I guess what Im trying to say is dont look at the negative or things are going to stay negative. If you look to the positive, you can find better things in life.

Laceeblueeyes - I hope that you read this and that you find that you can look to anything posative and find something happier in life than what's going on right now. Looking at death to find help isnt going to work. I really want you to know that things are going to be better for you, just dont think about the negative things that has happened to you... You've got friends and family who care about you, people here at Blogs4me care about you too!! Don't be afraid to seek out someone to confide in. We're all here for you.