hes making me miserable...

Ron constantly calls me asking why I cant change my feelings, why i cant think about all the good times we've had and everything... Every call makes me more miserable, every time Mel tells me "hes not getting any better" it makes me feel even more like shit because i know that Im the one that made him miserable. I dont understand what the hell im supposed to do anymore! Its like, I talked to Mel, and this is what happened:

Mel: You he wont get better
Donna: he will, he has to
Mel: e does but he wont
Donna: i do something i feel is right, and for that its like punishment
Donna: i dont know what the hell to do anymore
Donna: im just so sick of life these days, nothing is ever simple, nothing ever happens without something else bad happening afterwards
Donna: if i didnt break up with him then i'd be lying to him and be unhappy, and now that i have broken up with him i cant be happy because i just see him and stay miserable because he is
Donna: i want him to let me go, i feel like shooting myself for doing that because every single moment he talks to me hes trying to find a way for me to change my mind, and it just cant happen like that, i cant snap my fingers and change my feelings
Donna: i hate this fucking world
Mel: Yeah


I dont know anymore... Its killing me to know that i made him miserable...
Lastexit29 on
lastexit29
hey, give yourself some time to grieve..and get over it. he'll be ok, and so will you. if you are meant to be together, you will.
lonelygrl on
lonelygrl
i was the one who broke up with him because i dont have the same feelings and now im just miserable because i know i've made someone else miserable.
Lastexit29 on
lastexit29
i know, but its the right decision for you...he'll be ok. try to focus on yourself instead of him.
bbhotbubbles on
bbhotbubbles
As you go through this time don't go 2 hard on your self
TheJoeD on
thejoed

He'll just keep hanging around until he drives you crazy enough to get back with him.

If it wasn't for that technique i'd never get laid

::cue guitar solo from Sublime::::

Sublime was such a great band.

Stop doing drugs, kids.

Cavutto on
cavutto

Naaaa na na na.  Naaaaa na na na na!

She didn't want to, she didn't want to, she didn't want to, she didn't want to take it!

Yeah, I would probably just keep bugging the girl myself, at least for a couple months.  Then, when that tack didn't work, I would realize that instead of 'courting' her, what I was really doing was stalking her.  Just give him a few months of stalking time and then he'll probably give up and become the lonely captain of a schooner in a puddle of his own tears.  I really wanted to use the word 'coxswain' there, but I couldn't make it work. 

lonelygrl on
lonelygrl
lmao. i dont want him following me around for months!!!
Cavutto on
cavutto
Well, that's what you sign up for when you get into a relationship.  Stalking is a necessary part of the break-up aftermath.  If you want the stalking to end quickly, do a lot of really mundane stuff for a while and bore the crap outta him.  Just sit home and do a few puzzles or something.  He'll lose interest. 
Cavutto on
cavutto
Oh yeah, and try not to take any of my advice on anything.  I'm so full of shit that after I'm dead and buried, the grass will grow 10 feet high from all the minerals I fertilize the soil with. 
lonelygrl on
lonelygrl
lmfao
natanism on
natanism
Christ I broke up with my boyfriend SIX months ago and he still won't leave me alone!  In time he will get over it, just be mean.  He will eventually get the point.
Cavutto on
cavutto
Yeah, six months is a good stalking period.  Seven months is better.  Eight?  Eight months is money.
TheJoeD on
thejoed
Myspace stalking is my fave.
Cavutto on
cavutto

Oh, c'mon Joe!  Where's the creepiness in that?  Try getting caught hiding in the bushes outside your ex's window with a jar of Vick's Vaporub and a handful of womens socks.  That's where it's at.

lonelygrl on
lonelygrl
you are wierd. lol.